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How to Ask Someone to be Your Mentor?

Written by Holly Brailsford | Sep 22, 2026, 11:15:00 PM

How to Ask Someone to be Your Mentor?

 

In this video, Holly makes the case for why mentors shouldn't have to be asked at all. Instead of relying on the awkward LinkedIn message or hallway coffee invite, she argues that high-performing organizations build structured programs that give every employee permission to have a mentor, rather than leaving it to chance. The reasoning lands on a sharp point: informal mentoring quietly rewards the confident and well-connected while the people who need mentoring most get left behind.

From there, Holly zeroes in on the real challenge, matching, showing how open profile pages just recreate the same bias, pushing people toward whoever looks most charismatic or most similar to them. Her solution is a mentoring platform like Brancher, designed to strip out that similarity bias and connect people more deliberately.

She closes by tying it back to results, noting that employees with mentors tend to perform better, stay longer, and engage more deeply with their organization's goals.